Letter #92: Love Catcher in Bali (or, Love Catcher 4)
Good morning, Erin. In my Nineteen to Twenty letter, I told you the “you make me melt” story about the girl I had a crush on in college, but I didn’t mention how I developed a crush on her (because it was relevant to that particular story): I was sitting near her in class, reached down to pull something out of my schoolbag, and, as I sat back up, I happened to glance over at her…and, as though struck by lightning, I just suddenly liked her. Had she in some way changed her appearance? Said or done something charming? Was she giving me a flirty, knowing grin? No. She was sitting in her seat, casually listening to another classmate talk about some other class we were taking. I’d seen her dozens of times in multiple classes, rolled my eyes at some of her ridiculous analysis of Paradise Lost , sighed deeply as she regaled us with stories at odds with my sentiments about life, beauty, and the nature of the universe—she’d been dressed up, dressed down, witty, grating, thoughtful, despa...